A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.
Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.
● Featured Article
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Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…
● Latest Articles
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Doubt With Benefits
I don’t know… I’m just not sure. Doubt shows up everywhere-before making decisions, in relationships, when facing new ideas. It creeps us quietly, and mostly,…
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The Why Beneath The What
Human beings are often described as creatures of habit-we live by them, we are shaped by them, and we’re constantly encouraged to cultivate good ones…
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Life and Its Demand for Balance
Adulting, as I continue to learn it, seems to be an act of balancing. Work-life balance that we hear so much about-how important it is,…
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Freeze To Flow
Water freezes from the outside in. The outer layers, exposed to the cold, radiate heat away more quickly, allowing ice to form. There’s more science…
● About Me
I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.
It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.
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