A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.
Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.
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You see the grace you’re willing to extend. The patience you exercise. The forgiveness you dish out. Do it long enough, and you get familiar with the depths of your own love. You get better at letting them be.
● Latest Articles
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Independence or Defense?
I find there’s a specific kind of loneliness in the belief that being ‘easy’ is the same thing as being lovable. It’s that voice that…
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These Chaos?
I woke up thinking about this. Don’t know if it’s the kind of chaos WP had in mind. But it’s what was running through my…
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Brighter in Chaos
But what happens when there is no more disappointment? What happens when we are finally loved well, and there isn’t enough friction to spark the…
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Why Not?
Because sometimes, that’s all that matters. That you’re doing what you want to do. Precisely because of just that-because you want to do it.
● About Me
I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.
It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.
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