A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.

Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.

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  • Fearful.

    Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…

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  • Chasing Cola & Other Stories of Half-Living

    Chasing Cola & Other Stories of Half-Living

    “I’ll chase this with some Coca-Cola” -these marked the start of my weekend rhythm. This would be either some Whiskey or Gin- depending on the…

  • All Around Us- Intentionally

    All Around Us- Intentionally

    “Calm down…the world doesn’t revolve around you.” We’ve heard it. We have said it. We’ve thought it-especially when someone gets too demanding or overbearing. And…

  • Not a Thank You, Just a Way of Seeing

    Not a Thank You, Just a Way of Seeing

    When I saw this prompt today-my thought immediately went to how I react when something good happens or when somebody helps out. You know-good stuff.…

  • Lingerie & Liberation: Learning to Just Do

    Lingerie & Liberation: Learning to Just Do

    To say I’ve had nothing to write about these past few weeks would be a lie. It is, however, true that I have not written…

About Me

I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.

It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.