A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.

Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.

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  • It’s Them & You.

    If they don’t change, and you don’t change, everything stays comfortable. And as humans, we are wired to do the easiest thing, not the most difficult.

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  • Today, Today

    Today, Today

    Because tomorrow is never promised, and when it does arrive, it always brings its own share of worries.

  • White Bears And Thoughts that Stick

    White Bears And Thoughts that Stick

    You cannot ‘not think’ about something. All you can do is to think about something else.

  • Stubbed Toe Now, Reason Later

    Stubbed Toe Now, Reason Later

    Or sometimes, deep down, they acknowledge how messed up the situation is and they want there to be a reason, because going through certain things…

  • A Little Life

    A Little Life

    Which is a little crazy, because I am not even a tiny bit the author that Hanya Yanagihara is—maybe in a couple of years. And…

● About Me

I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.

It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.

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