A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.
Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.
● Featured Article
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Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…
● Latest Articles
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Quiet Revolution
I feel like a fraud sometimes. I find myself worrying about personal growth, setting goals, and becoming a better version of myself, while the world…
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Virtuous Selfishness
By definition, selfishness is the quality or state of being selfish; a lack of consideration for other people. To be selfish is to be excessively…
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Unquiet Silence.
It’s strange how silence-a tool I wield so often-has become a stranger when I try to describe it. My favorite companion in moments of anger…
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Moving Roads
“Run your own race” we’re told. But I’ve never really understood it. Honestly, I don’t know if I do now-because, first of all, a race…
● About Me
I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.
It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.
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