A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.
Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.
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Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…
● Latest Articles
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The Discipline of Indiscipline.
The issue isn’t a lack of discipline but rather its misdirection. Consistent avoidance behaviours, like procrastination and stress eating, showcase hidden discipline. The key lies…
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You Before You
Authenticity is like that elusive unicorn we’re all supposed to ride into the sunset, but let’s face it—many of us were handed beliefs like mystery…
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Not One But Two
Ah, the quest for positive male influences! I grappled with finding one noteworthy man who’s not also a disappointment. Eventually, I settled on two: Dad,…
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Picture That!
Well, I’m older-that’s for sure. Did I picture this? Honestly, I don’t remember what I thought life would look like back then. I was just…
● About Me
I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.
It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.
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