A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.
Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.
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Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…
● Latest Articles
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Not Made For This
Love, intimacy, and the myths we inherited that no longer fit the times. Saw a post today about love and “the one” and why it…
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Same Actor, Different Script
This is a bold question. Very bold. Especially when I’m still trying to figure out how I got here in the first place. I’ve read-…
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Mindfulness, Algorithms, and Adulting: A Rant. A Reflection. Maybe Both.
There’s so much advice out there on how to be mindful-or maybe it’s just my algorithm. But I really hope it’s not just me. I…
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All The Above
Okay, so I’ve tried. I really did. I wanted to invent a holiday. But turns out, that’s not my ministry. I’m not the architect-I’m the…
● About Me
I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.
It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.
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