A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.

Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.

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  • Fearful.

    Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…

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  • Stitching (Or Not)

    Stitching (Or Not)

    So when we face a new challenge, and are putting ourselves back together- what’s the end in aim? The perfect beginning or the pattern just…

  • Stitch By Stitch

    Stitch By Stitch

    I used to think strength was about never breaking. I thought it was the unyielding, impenetrable armor that kept the world at bay. But lately,…

  • One Too Many

    One Too Many

    Cold drinks, hot showers and life’s simple pleasures. Just one? My life is a combination of simple pleasures here and there that make it feel…

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    Err… File Not Found

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About Me

I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.

It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.