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What are some life hacks that you practice?

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.. with some psychological backing..

1. Take a Nap

This is top of the list for a reason. It always works.

I’ll be having a terrible day, be deep in my feelings, and be very confused about a lot of things—up until I take a nap. And it doesn’t have to be in the comfort of my bed (though this would be best). But it really doesn’t matter where. As soon as I wake up from it, it either doesn’t matter, I totally forgot about it, or I have newly acquired super powers and I can do whatever needs to be done.

[Mechanism: Sleep flushes out built-up adenosine and resets cortisol levels, lowering hyperactive emotional processing in the amygdala so your prefrontal cortex can regain clarity.]

2. Feel the Feelings (And Then Let Go)

We’re going to experience a lot of feelings and emotions. Some that we do not like and others that we wish we could hold on to forever.

Bad news: we can’t.

Good news: we can’t.

Because if we can’t hold on to the happiness, we shouldn’t try to hold on to the sad either. Feel the good, feel the bad.

And then move.

[Mechanism: The physiological surge of an emotion naturally peaks and dissipates within ~90 seconds. Allowing it to pass without resistance prevents rumination from extending its shelf life.]

3. Say the Thing(s)

Sometimes, maybe many times, we’re going to find ourselves in situations where people don’t treat us the way we like. Or we will witness something that we don’t like and would wish to have changed.

Now, there are times when it can be addressed directly with the persons that have hurt or disappointed us. Other times, it can’t. But there’s another way to say it.

Write it down, talk to yourself, tell somebody else. Just say it. There is something strangely freeing about saying things out loud. Sometimes, you realise just how not-big a deal the issue was, or you get a new perspective and it stops bothering you. Or you find a way to solve it.

In whichever case, whatever the outcome: Just say it.

[Mechanism: Known as affect labelling, translating raw emotion into spoken or written language shifts neural activity from emotional centres to executive region of the brain, reducing the distress.]

4. Listen to Music

Never let a day go by without listening to some music. It could be new music, old music, music you used to love. Just listen to something.

Music has the power to calm, to teach, to force you to face things you have been avoiding, and to introduce you to new ways of feeling. But most importantly, it makes you feel. And if it can make you feel good, the better.

[Mechanism: Auditory stimulation engages neural networks across the entire brain, triggering dopamine release and regulating the autonomic nervous system to adjust heart rate and mood.]

5. Everyday With Its Troubles

Daily life is unpredictable. Sure, we may have routines that we have locked down, and part of our days may be pretty much the same. However, life is still unpredictable. And there are no perfect hacks that work all days.

Pay attention. Find out what kind of day you’re having, then find the perfect way to deal.

[Mechanism: Embracing situational awareness over rigid adherence builds psychological flexibility—the cognitive capacity to shift mindset and adapt to fluid circumstances without friction.]

  None of these will solve your problems overnight, and none of them will make life neat and tidy. They aren’t meant to. They’re just ways to stay human when the day gets heavy. Try one. See what happens.