A space for the thoughts I can’t shake. Sometimes raw, often tangled, always honest.

Trying to make sense of the chaos. One blog at a time.

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  • Fearful.

    Fear as a guide, and why I am keeping mine. Why would I? I used to think- and plenty of us still do- that fear and self -doubt are character flaws- weaknesses that need to be excised. That to be the “best version” of myself, to live a great life.…

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  • No More Next Time.

    She always felt it before she saw him.Used to call them butterflies-she’s not so sure anymore.Not sure if they were ever butterflies or warnings.Or if…

  • Working Fate

    Working Fate

    “Whatever is meant for you will always find you.” It’s a hopeful sentiment. One I used to believe with the same intensity that I now…

  • Take me Back

    Take me Back

    To not be an adult at heart. Ha-ha To be able to separate the adulting your body and brain need to do…and still hold onto…

  • Right Side of Wrong

    Right Side of Wrong

    “An extraordinary man has the right.. not officially, but within himself, to permit his conscience to step over certain obstacles.” – Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and…

About Me

I’m Betty-the creator behind NdukuOutLoud. The name comes from my middle name, Nduku and “Out Loud” is my quiet rebellion against being, well…quiet. Naturally introverted, but this blog is where I speak up-about life, growth, and the everyday moments that shape us.

It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it resonates with you too.